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Anti-Slut Defense is any action a girl takes to shut down sexual escalation, often suddenly and counter to her previous behavior. Typically they do this by breaking a sexual mood through sudden, often irrational, inexplicable verbal or non-verbal non-compliance. It tends to strike just when you think everything is lined up and the full-close is …
I don’t mean this in some nihilistic sense, by the way. And I don’t mean it in the sense that when someone does something nice they are doing it for purely selfish reasons, to “feel good”. That’s an old argument for others to make (though I think that it’s quite valid). What I’m going to …
If you’re out solo gaming, here are your best strategies. 1) Mixed 3-set Find a mixed 3-set (2 girls and one guy) and take the girl that he’s ignoring. Most guys always focus in on the girl they like leaving the 2nd girl really bored, so she’ll generally be really happy to have someone to …
What holds people back in the path to being a sociopath in the Gervais Principle sense, is their desire to be a “good person”. This usually means that other people like them. And if you want people to like you, you won’t be able to focus on real gains. (Unless of course, you’re playing at …
About 2 or 3 years ago, I started listening to the Hardcore History podcast which I HIGHLY recommend. Anyway, he did an awesome series on World War I which is something I never really studied that much as I’m far more intersted in eye-to-eye death battles, lols. Anyway, after getting into Hardcore History, I told …
In the Gervais Principle Ribbonfarm series, he spends several posts talking about how Sociopaths, Clueless, and Losers communicate among themselves and among each other and this is another aspect that I think is really valuable to apply to the dating world and gives great insight into why women are so much better at this than …
This is going to be a fairly quick post as compared to the other two posts I’m working on that are multi week projects to get just right. Many girls get pretty upset that guys learn PickUp and dating skills in general. Over the years it’s often been compared to makeup for men. I always …
I’ve gotten so much out of watching Jordan Peterson’s lectures. It’s really impressive how deep what he says goes, and how many meanings are contained in the ideas he puts across. One of them is the idea of the dragon slayer or the monster killer. First off, a monster is a representation of things in …
A few years ago, I read a series of blog posts on ribbonfarm.com that he ultimately turned into a book called The Gervais Principle. When I read it originally I thought it was a really interesting post, and I thought that it was a good model for corporate reality. But outside of the corporate world, …
Just yesterday, I finished reading the book, Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find and Keep Love (that’s a mouthful), and while I enjoyed reading it, I’m always really skeptical of anything I agree with too much. If I agree with it then I’m reinforcing my existing beliefs …
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