RedpoleQ

Your Questions Answered #8

McConnell, Kane Vast and I have been really slacking on these podcasts–the coronavirus has caused us all to make many adjustments to our lives in 2020 and those continue this year in 2021.

We’ll probably talk about that stuff in a future podcast episode. We’ve already recorded the next podcast which is an interview with Aaron Darko of HealthMastery.com who you can find on Instagram. So keep a lookout for that soon too.

Kane goes pretty in depth about getting your woman onto threesomes, and we give some updates on how the dating scene has been during corona-time and more including:

How do women think about threesomes
Reframing threesomes so girls will try it
Ideal relationship frames and dynamic
The power of positive reinforcement
Why developing your sex skills is an easy win
Use your skill stack to make your relationship better
How qualification makes picking up and dating easier
The emotional elements of being good at sex
How have travel restrictions affected the dating market
Guy gets caught texting another girl and improves his relationship
How has coronavirus affected the dating scene in major Asian cities?
How prevalent is birth control in Asia?
How common are sexless marriages in Asia?
Is it good to be a “player”?
What is a pickup artist to do during corona time?
Quadrant II: what it is, and why you should focus on it
and a whole lot more…

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Mentioned in this session:

Male Chastity Belt (Not Safe For Work)

https://www.google.com/search?q=male+chastity+belt&rlz=1C1GCEA_enTW797TW797&sxsrf=ALeKk012V5jGOugMyo4v8b905hQcKm6u1w:1619865381677&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwi8j6LlpKjwAhVYyYsBHQv3BsMQ_AUoAnoECAEQBA&biw=1280&bih=610

Urgent-Important Matrix

The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People

The 7th Habits of Highly Effective People

Sexless Japan

https://www.stippy.com/japan-culture/is-japan-really-sexless/

Conan the Barbarian – The Wheel of Pain

Dark Knight Rises

Sisyphus

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sisyphus

Angry Fire Video

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The Red Pill “Lessons” of Will Smith?

McConnell, Kane Vast and I sat down to discuss Rollo Tomassi’s “The Red Pill Lessons of Will Smith,” an episode of his podcast where he discusses the Will Smith and Jada Pinckett-Smith “cheating” scandal. And I put cheating in quotation marks because they were separated at the time, but more on that in the podcast.

It was a great conversation that got pretty emotional at times and hearing McConnell get all worked up was a big part of the fun:

The manosphere and what it is
structured game vs natural game
outer game vs inner game
The red pill
female nature vs environment and technology
Men’s rights activists
The internet echo chamber
MGTOW and why you should stay away from women
Incels
Why you should love feminists and they are the best thing to ever happen to men
Real life vs internet life
The chad Alpha >> Beta and the problems with red pill thinking
Find a dominance hierarchy you can succeed in
Blue pill
Choose your own value structure
Who has the sexual power?
Do guys want to have sex with their wives?
Female privilege and double standards
Feminists are wrong…not all societies need them
Were the 1950s the best time?
Men get so screwed by the legal system
You can determine how your relationships are by how you setup your life
Why you should create your own rules
Always seek to make your life better
The problem with hyphenated last names
#1 question: are you getting what you want?

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Mentioned in this session:

mLTR

https://www.pickupasia.com/useful-terms-and-terminology/#LTRmLTR

Structured Game

Basics

The Game, Penetrating The Secret Society of Pickup Artist

The Chad

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chad_(slang)

The Red Pill Wiki

(check the links in the sidebar)

https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/

Elliott Rodgers

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/2014_Isla_Vista_killings

Cuckold

https://quod.lib.umich.edu/m/middle-english-dictionary/dictionary/MED8342

Alpha

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alpha_(ethology)

Jordon Peterson on Dominance Hierarchies

Bill Burr – Epidemic of Gold Digging Whores

Jordan Peterson on Spicing Up Your Sex Life

Ideological Possession

NLP – Neuro Linguistic Programming

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Neuro-linguistic_programming

Crazy Stupid Love

Johnny Depp

https://www.bbc.com/news/uk-53347044

Family Registers

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Koseki#Family_registries_in_other_nations

The Gervais Principle

https://www.ribbonfarm.com/2009/10/07/the-gervais-principle-or-the-office-according-to-the-office/

“I fuck…hard.”

The Myth of the Middle Class Alpha Male

PDF Download link

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Sona – A Journey to the Top in Asia

McConnell and I sat down with a special guest, Sona, who has been living in Taiwan for 14 years, and is so plugged into the culture that he runs a Chinese YouTube channel with over 177,000 subscribers where he talks about Chinese and American hip-hop music and culture, runs a chain of Parkour schools and has been in several movies.

It’s a great conversation where we cover everything from slang and language learning to parkour to the local Taiwanese dating scene:

weird Chinese slang: the meaning of “cow cunt” and “good dick”
learning Chinese
Sona’s origin story”
A man must go on a quest, and my quest will be THERE!”
DJing around Asia
Acting in Asia
Building a Parkour business in Taiwan
Korean hustle
The Taiwan dating (horror) scene
RedpoleQ’s scummy dating stories
Is it you or do Taiwanese girls suck?
Having standards and setting boundaries to have a sustainable relationship
Teach people how to treat youTaiwanese girls gone wild: temper tantrums
Be willing to lose someone great in the name of your own self-respect
Taiwanese girls and their crazy expectations
and a whole lot more…

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Mentioned in this session:

Sona

https://www.youtube.com/c/%E5%A5%BD%E6%A9%9F%E8%BB%8A/videos

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrLMV4ZtcHhVSTZpChhu0TQ/videos

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/BTS_Skytrain

Z-108

Scott Adkins

https://youtu.be/5n9t46-O3Kw

The Yamakasi

The Kong Vault

Meth Mouth

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Meth_mouth

No Retreat, No Surrender

https://youtu.be/meq3Dn3TNs8

Nike Chicken Commercial

Jump London

The Beige Philip Show

http://beigephillip.com/

CP Time

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Colored_people%27s_time

Shaft Clip

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1tzkAkmC9z0GClcaMA0XXuG0wCFY-qvSa/view?usp=sharing

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We Discuss, “The Truth” by Neil Strauss

Kane, McConnell and I sat down to discuss the book, The Truth, by Neil Strauss where he talks about how he was able to hang up his player, pickup artist shoes and choose monogamy and marriage.

It’s a great book, well worth reading and there is so much to unpack and learn from and plenty to think about including:

How to lay down a great routine
DHV – Display of Higher Value
American ideas about sex, dating and relationships
Let the girls get ready instead of encouraging them to be ugly
Western delusions about sex and relationships
The post-consent dating world of Tinder
Why dating apps are not your friend
Sex addiction…is it a real thing?
The dangers of porn and masturbation
Is it trauma or is it life?
Successful enough to fail rather vs failing enough to be successful
Bandaids for your dating lives and how to avoid them
It’s important to make your sexual fantasies come true
Rules vs intents in relationships
Compersion – Is it possible to enjoy your partner’s sexual pleasure with someone else?
Swinger’s parties and the many ways to enjoy them
Relationship Management and how to do it all wrong
To live your fantasies, you have to think practically
Is being divorced with kids, the best life?
and a whole lot more…

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Mentioned in this session:

Gabby Reece Interview with Neil Strauss

https://www.gabriellereece.com/the-gabby-reece-show-episode-3-neil-strauss/

The Truth An Uncomfortable Book About Relationships

DHV – Display of High Value

https://www.pickupasia.com/useful-terms-and-terminology/#DHV

We Discuss “Our Inner Ape”

We Discuss “Our Inner Ape”

Our Inner Ape – Part 2

Bill Burr – “Absolutely Reprehensible Behavior!”

Lane Bryant “Plus Size”

Is There A Connection Between Childhood Abuse and Sexuality?

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3535560/

Yes, monkey’s do masturbate and so do many other animals…

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Non-reproductive_sexual_behavior_in_animals

Jordan Peterson on How Women Expose Your Inadequacies

Jordan Peterson on Spicing Up Your Sex Life

American Pie and the Glorification of MILFs

https://youtu.be/IzD-cPcGBoU

Stacy’s Mom

Other Books By Neil Strauss

Emergency, This Book Will Save Your Life

https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Compersion

American Psycho Is More Psycho Than I Remember…

https://youtu.be/eWNHfw9W5aQ

Elli on Her Open Marriage

Elli on Her Open Marriage

Introducing Chris Smoove!

https://www.youtube.com/user/Smoove7182954

“Yeah, yeah, yeah! SPIDER-MAAAAAAAN!!!”

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Vonny Hangs Up Her Play Party Shoes

Kane, McConnell and I sat down with VONNY LANG to catch up on her new new lifestyle–monogamy and marriage! Who would have thought?

The usual whackiness ensues in this podcast, including:

Open minded dinner parties
Naked yoga
Vonny’s matchmaking
Fire breath orgasm
How she met her husband aka Superman
Don’t let your ego stop you from getting the women you want
Vonny’s road to monogamy
Jealousy is healthy feeling
Muse Vonny inspires “love” poems
Who licks pussy better, men or women?
How to know you’re ready for marriage
What’s so great about marriage?
A pep talk from Vonny
Let’s talk about monogamy
and a whole lot more…

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Mentioned in this session:

Vonny Lang’s Play Party World

Vonny Lang’s Swinging Lifestyle

Vonny’s Turned-On Events

https://turned-on.mn.co

The Wheel of Time

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Wheel_of_Time

Ta’Veren

https://wot.fandom.com/wiki/Ta%27veren

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YOUR Questions Answered #7

I sat down with Kane and McConnell to answer questions from a Japan Lair member who is just getting started with women and has a lot of fundamental misunderstandings and internal conflicts about women, dating and sex.

In addition we answered some questions from other listeners as well, and talked about a WIIIIIIIIIDE variety of topics including:

How do I avoid gold diggers and money wasters?
I want to find a nice, pure girl. Any tips?
Why you shouldn’t sleep with “easy” girls
I’m a virgin, what should you do?
Any tips on avoiding ladyboys, shemales and transgenders?
I’m not white, do I still have a chance with East Asian girls?
What are the easiest places to meet Asian girls in Asia?
How to guarantee that girls will lie and take advantage of you
The 3 things that could be standing in your way of success with women
Why you may need to stop being you
Why you need to be around who you want to become
What to do when a girl sees your messages with another girl
How to keep both girls happy after a 3-some
and a whole lot more…

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Mentioned in this session:

The WRONG Holy Grail

Conan the Barbarian

Cock-a-too

https://www.facebook.com/CockatooLadyboyBar/?rf=308647199234914

GSM

https://globalseoulmates.com/

Brass Monkey Taipei Language Exchange

https://www.brassmonkeytaipei.com/event/item/1152-language-exchange-meetup

The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida

What Do Women Want? by Daniel Bergner

How to Think More about Sex by Alain de Botton

Marriage, A History: How Love Conquered Marriage by Stephanie Coontz

The Female Brain by Louann Brizendine

The meaning of the phoenix and why parts of you have to die so you can move on

PickUp Asia Course List

https://www.pickupasia.com/courses/

PickUp Asia YouTube Channel

https://youtube.com/pickupasia

3somes: 2 Girls and YOU and How to Make It Happen

PickUp Asia Forums

https://pickupasia.com/forums/

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More on Relationships and How to Stay Young (And Keep Dating Young Chicks)

I sat down with Kane and McConnell to talk about a wide variety of topics. We talk more about relationships, the idea of “open” relationships, how to stay young and relevant, and of course share wacky stories from our past.

In addition to that, we talked about some of our sexual preferences, some relevant personal development concepts, and of course we talked about, “game” including:

How to be a black male in Korea
Do you really want an “open” relationship?
Friends with benefits, girlfriends and other arrangements…
Is communication about everything always the best way?
Adventures in compersion
“Mimes are the bagels of entertainment.”
Offline to online shift
The secret to staying young
Why young people don’t respect older people and how you can avoid that
As an older guy, the pitfalls to avoid to keep smashing young puss, lols!
and a whole lot more…

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Mentioned in this session:

“Why does everyone always laugh when I say that?!”

A Guide To Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships

What is NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming)?

The Bagel of Entertainment

The Critical Drinker Reviews Joker

Dr. Evil on Staying Young and Relevant

Louis CK on Fun After 40

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Dating Multiple Girls (or Guys, If You’re Into That Sort of Thing)

I sat down with Kane and McConnell to talk about a wide variety of topics, especially how to manage dating multiple people. We talk about the pitfalls, what to avoid, what to do to keep things from getting too messy and OF COURSE share some stories.

In addition to that, we talked about some of our sexual preferences, some relevant personal development concepts, and of course we talked about, “game” including:

Christmas in Japan
Girls touching themselves and getting a hard pounding
Multiple orgasms
How and why to be tough on yourself but compassionate with other people
Game giving you a bigger toolkit and a bigger toolkit can fix more issues
Girls dating multiple guys
How live streaming is like dating
Find out if guys really cheat more than girls do
McConnell’s fellatio taxi and fellatio cinema double feature!
Why you should ask why first
How to PROACTIVELY manage your relationships
Girls can be annoying when they really like you
Look out for those “yes ladders,” they’re a slipper slope to hell
How telling the truth can get you into trouble
McConnell’s trixy tactic
and a whole lot more…

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Mentioned in this session:

The OG PickUp Bible:

For the Young Bloods:

Japanese Girls in Santa Outfits!

Bulls and Cucks

https://www.kinkly.com/definition/17110/bull-cuckolding

Rambo!

https://www.pickupasia.com/art-and-science-of-sex/

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Genghis_Khan

Big 5 Personality Traits

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Big_Five_personality_traits

The Skin I Live In

Jordan Peterson on Multiple Orgasms

Viktor Frankl

https://www.instagram.com/p/B2wKC7JggY2/

Eddie Murphy

https://youtu.be/g6h1IP7eYiU

Survivorship Bias

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Survivorship_bias

Fellatio Japan

https://www.fellatiojapan.com/

Pit Bull aka Mr. Worldwide

Colombo Interrogation

Micro Expressions

Clerks – “How Many Dicks Have You Sucked?”

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How a “Side-Piece” Can Help Your Primary Relationship

In the last podcast we discussed how marriage affects pickup and this time when I sat down with McConnell and Kane we discuss the role of “side-pieces” in marriage and relationships and what the pros and cons are.

As usual the conversation went on a lot of different bizarre, educational and hilarious tangents and you’ll learn why we think that having a side-piece is so advantageous in many relationships, including:

The practical aspects of having a side piece
Mini-side ho holidays keep you sane
A great way to cure your scarcity
Don’t think with your emotions
Why and when to use a “safe word”
Gives men leverage in the relationship
Side girl makes you appreciate your main girl more
Be a man with a plan
Developing your relationship guidebook
Date more people to get more relationship experience
Now what you will and won’t compromise on
Is it weird not to want to get married and be single forever?
and a whole lot more…

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Mentioned in this session:

Our Interview with Ellie:

Elli on Her Open Marriage

The Six Pillars of Self-Esteem

https://www.pickupasia.com/the-shadow-knows-part-i/

What McConnell Is Packing:

More Than You Ever Wanted to Know about Pegging

https://www.reddit.com/r/RandomActsOfPegging/

Listen and Subscribe to Us on YouTube!

https://www.youtube.com/pickupasia

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The Pros and Cons of Marriage and Tinder

I sat down with McConnell and Kane to discuss how marriage impacts dating and relationships and all the various setups possible and then we dive into a discussion of Tinder that was sparked by an interview with Jordan Peterson on Femsplainers (linked below).

We also spent some time talking about the book, Selfie, which was a book club book for our Approach Mastery boot camp alumni that charts the evolution of the ideal self from the Greeks until the present moment of personal development, and even throws in some comparisons with Asia for good measure!

As usual the conversation went on a lot of different bizarre, educational and hilarious tangents and you’ll learn why we think Online game is bad for men, including:

Who McConnell would trade lives with
Kane’s marriage setup (Yup, he’s married!)
How to decide what you want then plan for the worst to get the best
Why it’s harder to make changes in marriage than when you’re dating
Kane on turbulence theory
How online game makes men weaker and women cheaper
How girls can use Tinder to their advantage
That great pictures can get you laid, but it’s great social skills that get you a relationship
How women miss out on valuable social experience because of Tinder
How to be the best human you can be according to western civilization
The cutting edge of personality research—The Big 5 Personality Traits—model as a key and a map to yourself and others
and a whole lot more…

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