Author: Mr. Right

I sat down with McConnell, our resident fashion consultant and web maestro for a looooooong overdue chat where we answer a bunch of questions that have been sent in by listeners recently. In this session, you’ll learn:

• how to get girls sexually excited at the right time–get this wrong and your horny girl will go home with someone else
• the right way to show interest in Asian women and answer if you can show sexual interest
• how to give women a squirting orgasm
• how to keep a good reputation at work while still meeting women if you go out with co-workers
• tips on working with an inexperienced “wingman”
• our dating coach/PUA all star lineup
• how to re-engage a girl on a different social network who has deleted you on a different social network
• why you need to make it clear to women that you’re interested in more than just sex
• why waiting for signals from Asian women is a losers game
• and a whole lot more…

Mentioned in This Episode:

The Ultimate Sex Guide

The Art and Science of Sex Seminar

The Art and Science of Sex Seminar – Pickup Asia

One day, in art class at my all boys catholic school in Washington, DC when I was 14 years old, we were slinging clay and paint at one another with a healthy dose of sexual explicit put downs as usual. But this particular day, our art teacher-a middle aged bohemian hippie-totally lost it.

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I sat down with McConnell, our resident fashion consultant and web maestro and Mr. Right, a long time friend on the international playboy scene. This podcast is an especially good one. In it we answer a great question from a listener and talk about “harem” game, or more typically what we call, Multiple Long Term Relationships (MLTRs) and you’ll learn:

• How to understand the difference between strategy and skill with women
• What plausible deniability is and how to use it so women feel comfortable coming to your home
• How to make women feel like you REALLY like them–the power of qualification
• How to know if a girl likes you? Check her compliance levels!
• Harem game–how NOT to date multiple women
• How to introduce your girl to friends when you’re seeing more than one
• Whether dating multiple women bad for your game
• How to make your own rules for your relationships
• and a whole lot more…

Mentioned in This Episode:

Tom Terrero on Harem Game–how NOT to date multiple women

Seinfeld – We All Want the Hand

RedpoleQ’s Urban Hang Suite – Session 10: Sex

Mating In Captivity

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I sat down with McConnell, our resident fashion consultant and web maestro and Mr. Right, a long time friend on the international playboy scene. Picking up where we left off last time, we finally got down to discussing the pros and cons of day game vs night game as well as:

• Tactics for winning over in-demand girls and how long it can take
• How to get girls to send you naked pics
• Day game vs night game–pros and cons
• Why phone numbers are obsolete in Asia
• How to deal with flakes
• Why Instagram is better than Facebook
• Why your texting has to be TIGHT!
• Asian girls like it when you’re interested
• and a whole lot more…

Mentioned in This Episode:

How to Play Hard to Get

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McConnell, our resident fashion consultant and web maestro came back from Kitty Spa and Tokyo and was finally able to sit down we me and Mr. Right, a long time friend on the international playboy scene. Picking up where we left off last time, we finally got down to discussing where and how to get started meeting women including:

• Pros and cons of online dating
• You’ll hear about Mr. Right’s virgin adventures
• The hazards of online dating–it can be a real haunted house!
• How to build a social circle with online dating apps
• How online dating can be layup city
• The advantages to cold approach
• Where YOU can meet meet women through cold approach
• Pros and cons of bars and lounges vs club
• How to cold approach women (for beginners)
• How to feel good about bothering people
• Getting past your internal “no”
• A simple and easy improvement method pioneered by the Japanese, kaizen
• and a whole lot more…

Mentioned in This Episode:

Sex at Dawn: How We Mate, Why We Stray, and What It Means for Modern Relationships

Read my review of Sex at Dawn on Asia Dating Experts for more details.

Listen to my IN DEPTH discussion with McConnell about Sex at Dawn:
Part 1
Part 2

The Flinch

(Unfortunately not free anymore–but still cheap)

Kaizen – The Japanese Art of Continuous Improvement

The Slight Edge

Betelnut (Bing Lang)

Zuckerbergging HARD!

Not the best that Asia has to offer…

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While McConnell was away at Kitty Spa, I sat down with the Mr. Right, a long time friend on the international playboy scene. After a long time, away from recording, we finally sat down to answer some of your questions including:

• getting girls from your social circle
• how to stay out of the friend zone
• maintaining long term sexual tension
• being the new kid on the block
• the problem with cockblocks
• easy cold approach environments
• because that’s where the ladies are
• why cold approach develops your character
• Korea vs Japan: differences in the sexual cultures
• Korean girls don’t get to have any fun?
• How demanding are Korean girls?
• and a whole lot more…

Mentioned in This Episode:

The Ultimate Sex Guide

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I sat down with the McConnell, our resident fashion consultant and web maestro. After a long time away from recording, we finally sat down to answer some of your questions including:

• The basic, foundational skills you need to be successful with women
• How to learn to get sexual with women (especially when you’re a virgin)
• Is there any benefit to sex with hookers?
• The right way to be aggressive–and why it’s so important
• It doesn’t “just happen,” especially for YOU!
• “There’s always some bullshit”
• The perfect role model for success with women
• and a whole lot more…

Mentioned in This Episode:

Hirotada Ototake

PLAYER OF THE CENTURY!

(Lord Byron’s got nothing on this guy!)

The Session

A poet paralyzed from the neck down due to polio, hires a sex surrogate to lose his virginity

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I sat down with the McConnell, our resident fashion consultant and web maestro; and a VERY special guest: Julien Lacome aka GoldenBoy from MySiliconeLoveDoll.com at our crib. This time things got a little crazy in our house as we talked about some of our wilder sexual adventures in Asia including:

• Hong Kong’s 25 floors of whores
• Why you should get in touch with the local pickup community when you land in a new country
• Japan’s sex clubs
• Taipei’s Commander D sex party
• McConnell find BDSM on the bus
• Julien Lacome schools us on the blow job technique you must teach all your girls
• The All Japan Pussy Licking Tournament
• Julien’s anal only adventures
• McConnell gets all tied up
• Dealing with language barriers
• and a whole lot more…

Mentioned in This Episode:

Key and Peel – Mattress Shopping

“Who got that good D?!”

The All Japan Pussy Licking Contest

日曜日開催の『第3回全日本クンニ選手権』はお蔭様で大盛況に開催することが出来ました！
参加選手の皆さん！ご来場頂きましたお客様！審査員、モデルの皆様！本当にありがとうございました！
第4回は秋に開催する予定です！ pic.twitter.com/GQJGECfajl

— クンニクマン@5/24バイブバー1日店長 (@kunnikumann) March 15, 2016

FetLife – Social Network for the BDSM and fetish community

Tenga – New Adult Concept

Guy Shop – Taipei’s best and biggest sex shop

Shibari and Kinbaku – Japanese Bondage

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I sat down with the USUAL SUSPECTS, McConnell, our resident fashion consultant and web maestro; and Golden Fox, at our crib. This time we talked about all sorts of cool stuff including:

• Golden Fox on how he ended up drunk in Daegu, S. Korea—for a FULL YEAR!
• McConnell’s Asia love affair!
• How to make friends and build a social circle when you first move to Asia
• RedpoleQ’s first journey to Japan
• McConnell dials for love at 15 years old
• RedpoleQ on how desperation pushed him past discomfort
• Why you don’t need to have sex with lots of different women
• Is all fair in love and war?
• and a whole lot more…

Mentioned in This Episode:

Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill

The classic, MUST READ” personal development classic. The digital download is so cheap, it’s like they’re paying YOU to read it!

Jim Rohn

My favorite “success philosopher” and the only celebrity I regret never meeting…

The Approach Mastery Boot Camp

Your road to an awesome life and hot ASIAN women!

The Great Happiness Space

The definitive documentary about the Japanese hosting business and what it’s like to be a real life gigolo in Asia

(Right Click and “save as” to download)

R.O.B. The Robot – NES Deluxe Set (Released in 1985!)

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I sat down with the USUAL SUSPECTS, McConnell, our resident fashion consultant and web maestro; and Golden Fox, at our crib. This time we talked about all sorts of cool stuff including:

• More on 3-somes
• How getting graphic will help you improve your success with women
• “I’m a hefty guy, can I be successful with Asian women?”
• Are you suffering the dreaded one-itis?
• Girls aren’t responsive? Learn to plow!
• Why she has more value than you do when you meet her…and how to flip that
• The right way to use indicators of interest
• and a whole lot more…

Mentioned in This Episode:

One-itis

1. the fixation by a guy (usually) on one girl who he imbues with positive qualities (that she may not possess), or whose positive qualities are imbued with such value, that all negative qualities are overlooked and/or rationalized away to the point that she seems to be totally irreplaceable as a potential partner for sex, dating, a relationship, marriage, or all of the above.
2. a woman who a guy has one-itis for
3. (adjective) the state of having one-itis

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The Passion Trap

The Game by Neil Strauss

Heavy Rotation by AKB-48

Just how big is AKB-48?

Chinese Marriage Proposal Fails

99 iPhone Proposal Fail

Man spends US$82,000 on iPhones in a grand gesture

Sports Car Proposal Fail

Man commands fleet of 20 luxury cars for grand marriage proposal but embarrassed girl still says NO

Samson

From Wikipedia:

According to the biblical account, Samson was given supernatural strength by God in order to combat his enemies and perform heroic feats such as killing a lion, slaying an entire army with only the jawbone of an ass, and destroying a pagan temple. Samson had two vulnerabilities, his attraction to untrustworthy women and his hair, without which he was powerless. These vulnerabilities ultimately proved fatal for him.

Delilah

From Wikipedia:

Delilah is a woman in the Hebrew bible Book of Judges, where she is the “woman in the valley of Sorek” whom Samson loved, and who was his downfall. Her figure, one of several dangerous temptresses in the Hebrew Bible, has become emblematic: “Samson loved Delilah, she betrayed him, and, what is worse, she did it for money,” Madlyn Kahr begins her study of the Delilah motif in European painting.

Renegade Master

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I sat down with the USUAL SUSPECTS, McConnell, our resident fashion consultant and web maestro; and Golden Fox, at our crib. PLUS, we also had a special guest, Kane Vast who brought in to talk about the 3-some game–yup, 2 girls one…

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• Whacky adventures in Asia: Qataris and the ship of the desert, Hong Kong, and Japan
• Setting goals so you can get back into meeting women (or get started!)
• Baby stepping your way to success–so you don’t get discouraged and throw in the towel
• How to harness jealousy and fear to reach your goals
• Winning through entitlement–feel you’re owed, and put in the work to make it happen
• Why god must love ugly
• 3-some primer (2 girls, one guy!)
• the 3 types 2 girl 3-somes
• how to make your girl a partner in crime
• how to find the right girl to share
• an easy setup to get her in the bed and the clothes off
• what to look out for that might trip you up
• and a whole lot more…

Mentioned in This Episode:

The You Are Not So Smart Podcast

Overcoming Our Irrational and Sometimes Crippling Fear of Rejection with Jia Jiang

Intimate Photos Capture the Relationship Between a Middle-Aged Man and His Real Doll (NSFW)

This article gives a glimpse into one man’s relationship with his silicon sex doll. When I read it last year, it really gave me a clear picture of what I don’t want my life to become and why I spend so much time working on building my relationship skills.

Unlimited Power and Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP)

Developed by Richard Bandler and John Grinder, it was popularized by Anthony Robbins, NLP has many useful and easily applicable techniques, concepts, mindsets and ideas.

The Art of War by Sun Tzu

Mastery by Robert Greene

Another must-read classic from Robert Greene about what it takes to succeed

Flow by Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi

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